Da Singgol Mi

There are so
many things that I don't like, and one of them is people meddling with my love
life, worst, partnering me with one of my female friends (the act, ha? Not the
person!!!). Ano ba? Bawal ba'ng magkaroon ng kaibigang babae ang isang lalaki
na di hahantong sa isang romantic relationship? I know they mean well, but I
really just don't like it. I love you guys for caring, but stop it... please... and here's why...



It doesn't mean that when almost all my childhood friends have their own kids
or has already been married eh ako din dapat ganun na. I'm so sorry, but I am
just too happy and content with my single life and how God is working through
me (hey, I really shouldn't be apologizing). I also don’t get these guys who
makes girls a necessity in their lives, na parang kaka-break up lang, eh
kailangan meron kaagad girlfriend. Parang nawawalan ng balls pag walang
girlfriend… ewan. It's not becoming of a Christian man, but then again, ako lang to.

I
grew up in
a Christian family, and growing up active in our youth fellowships, I
understood how important it is to be really ready when it comes to THAT
CERTAIN
SOMEONE in your life. I grew up with the understanding that when you
get
yourself into a relationship, the end result should be marriage. And I
still
believe that to be true. Call me old fashioned, call me crazy, call me
stupid…
heck, call me anything you want to, but I am a strong believer of this,
and I know
it’s what God intends for a REAL relationship. And as of now, even
though I’m
already thirty, I still don’t get that ker-thump, ker-thump sa puso ko.
I do
get crushes (hay, high school ba ito?...), I do admire girls(mga milya
ang layo sa akin, Nicole of PSD, Pia Guanio, etc, etc...) , I may, in
some level, even flirt with them(he he, BAD ako!!!), but
I know I’ll KNOW if that someone has come. It once happened to me,
akala ko sya
na, pero mali
pala. Now, I’m just being very careful and
listening to what God has to say. I’m not asking God tulad nung sa song
sa isang
Christian play, sabi nya “Could she be the one?” What am I waiting for?
Yung si
God ang magsasabing “Son, there she is.” Basta, I know I'll just know.
Don't give me that "P'ano mo malalaman kung di ka manliligaw"? crap.
Manliligaw ako kung sya na talaga yung sinabi ni God, walang kokontra!!!

I don’t want
a strike one, two, or three in my life. After strike three, you're out, di ba? What
I want is a home run!

Nga
pala, eto, sa akin lang ito. Ito ang prinsipyo ko sa buhay ko. Ngayon,
kung di kayo agree... eh 'di wag. Ako nga lang 'to, ok??? Kakain na ako
ng hapunan!!!